Amma the Hugging Saint

Last night I got my long awaited hug from Mata Amritanandamayi (Amma), who is known in the media as the “hugging saint”. They say that during the past few decades she has hugged over thirty million people worldwide, sometimes over 50,000 in one day while sitting continually for over 20 hours.

As I moved forward in the line toward Amma I saw that her expression was often pained. They say Amma, who was born in 1953 in India into a modest family of fisherman, is often in pain when giving hugs to this virtually endless procession of devotees.

I was also surprised to see a toddler screaming and kicking as he was placed in Amma’s arms. From the photos I had seen and the super human stories I had heard, I imagined Amma to be a continually smiling being who transformed all distress and fear into harmonious serenity with a mere glance or hug. Yet the toddler continued to scream in Amma’s lap until his mother carried him away. Perhaps I expect too much from living saints or a woman many call the “Divine Mother”?

Yet others who received her embrace appeared to be deeply grateful. One man ahead of me broke into deep and soulful tears after he was hugged. A devotee told me that Amma provides a clear reflection to those whom she embraces. The experience of her embrace is referred to as “Darshan”, which in Sanskrit means seeing or beholding visions of the divine.

Given the thousands of people who came to experience Darshan at her Ashram (an intentional spiritual community) in San Ramon, California, there is a apparently strong hunger in the world for inspiration, love and a glimpse of the divine.

Amma considers giving Darshan to all who wish for it to be her primary calling despite the unrelenting line of pilgrims and the associated pain. Yet her large volunteer organization known as the “Amma Family” also manages dozens of charities, schools, hospitals orphanages; hospices, women’s shelters and other services, while building over 25,000 homes for the homeless each year.

Though she and her primary Ashram are based in India, she travels the world almost perpetually and has become a worldwide phenomenon. Her simple and non dogmatic message of love and selfless service transcends religious creeds and resonates universally.

Movie Trailer for “DARSHAN” – a film about Amma

As a “recovering Catholic” I’m repulsed by authoritarian and legalistic dogma and I’m highly skeptical of institutional religion or intermediaries. But I agree with Amma’s basic philosophy that ultimately love for humanity and nature and selfless devotion to both is our best antidote to war, scarcity, environmental destruction, famine and self destruction.

Who can object to her philosophy of love conquering evil and selfless service over coming selfishness? Thousands have volunteered their time and talents during her visits around the world, while many others have devoted their lives to serving her many charitable enterprises.

Her work and universal message of compassion has earned her worldwide recognition.   She has spoken before the United Nations, the Parliament of World Religions and won international awards.

Yet she is criticized by some ex devotees who call her followers “Ammabots” and publish their experiences and opinions online in blogs and on forums online such as the “Ex-Amma Forum (a place where people who’ve left the Amma cult come together to help each other heal from their ordeal)”. One former member of the Amma family, Bronte Baxter, publishes the blog – cultofthehuggingsaint.com and writes:

“Amma’s brand of religion is a return to the infantile. She makes babies of grown men and women, giving them dolls to babble to and telling them she’s their mother. While speaking fine words about “the God within each of us,” her actions teach something different. Allowing people to pray to you, kneel to you, and worship you as God Incarnate is not the behavior of someone who wants people to recognize themselves as magnificent, powerful expressions of God.”

Amma is many things to many people. To her devotees she is the Divine Mother”. To others she is a demagogue. To learn more about Amma, visit the Amma Family website.

Amma Dolls

So what is one to believe? In my experience, most people will believe what they want to believe or perhaps need to believe. Personally, I believe in the transformative and transcendental power of love. I believe that we all have the divine spark within us and that we do not need to worship anyone or anything outside of ourselves.

The Universe is divine and we are all a part of the Universe. What do you believe? Feel free to post it by replying below.

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3 Responses to “Amma the Hugging Saint”

1. COOLTOAD Says:
   January 7th, 2010 at 11:00 pm

   WHAT YOU SAID IS TRUE,”THERE IS DIVINE SPARK” WITHIN ALL OF US. BUT WHAT DIVINE MASTERS DOES IS “THEY WILL JUST IGNITE THE SPARK”. WE ALL ARE NOT THAT MUCH DETERMINED OR ENTHUSIATIC LIKE A TRUE SPIRITUAL ASPIRANT TO FIND THE INNER SPARK WITHIN AND WE CANT EVEN FACE A UNFAVOURABLE SITUATION WITH PRESENCE OF MIND. IF YOU HAVE ALL THE ABOVE QULAITIES, YOU DONT NEED A GURU, U R SELF REALISED. BUT 99% OF HUMANS NEED SOMEBODY TO GUIDE OR SHOW A LIGHT.

   AS FAR AS I KNOW AMMA FROM PAST 25 YEARS, I.E., FROM THE AGE OF 5, I HAVE SEEN MIRACLES FROM HER SIDE IN THE EARLY DAYS, NOW CHANGED HER PHASE TO MORE HUMANITARIAN THAN THE GOD “LOOKS”. OUR SCRIPTURES SAYS, AVATARS OR INCARNATIONS BEHAVE IN MANY WEIRD WAYS, TO ESTABLISH THEIR PURPOSE OF “COMING DOWN”. NORMAL PEOPLE MAY NOT JUDGE ON THIS. AS WE KNOW, SOME SAYS JESUS WAS CELIBATE, AND SOME SAYS JESUS IS MARRIED TO MADGALANA MARIYAM. SO ONLY JESUS KNOWS WHY HE DID ALL THESE…WE CANT JUDGE ON IT.

   SO WE CANT JUDGE ON AMMAS ACTIONS. AMMA MAY SHOW PAIN OR HAPPINESS..IF YOU CLOSELY WATCH , AND ALSO TRY TO KNOW THE PERSON WHO IS FACING AMMA …THEN PERHAPS WE CAN UNDERSTAND WHY AMMA IS DIFFERENT TO DIFFERENT PEOPLE…SHE JUST REFLECTS WHAT WE ARE.

   SO SHE JUST REFLECTED WHAT YOU ARE!!….YOU NEVER WANTED TO BELIEVE AND YOUR MIND WAS CRITICIZING. MAY BE THAT IS THE REASON WHY SHE HAS GIVE SO MANY POSITIVE CLUES TO YOU!!!…ITS FUNNY…!

2. Susan CallmeCats Says:
   August 7th, 2010 at 1:28 am

   OMMMMM

   Blessings to all who read this message..

   Amma along with many other Guru’s of the past and present, are very powerful people.

   Powerful corporations as we know, who harm our way living, enron.. yada etc, they put

   up comericals that paint them all great looking!!! This is how Amma works, she fakes it and makes it!!!!

   Folks, don’t turn away, just read a little more……
   I met amma, and followed worshipping her and mantra chanting with her for quite some time..
   And As my sensitivity increased with a further deepending of awareness into the spirit,
   something made me say.. wait a second here.. The Last time I saw her, I came up to her,
   so excited, then I felt something very strange, a foulness, just evil.. Thats all i felt, just darkness..
   When I got huggd, she drained me out.. Thats how she works!! Wake up!!! She generates all this “shakti”
   feeling from taking from everyone theri! And everyone is so excited because she consumed your energy and spreads it out for her own benefit! Sorry to put the medicine down bitter, but Amma is a self realized demon.
   Along with many others! Paramhamsa yoganada! Many others. ASK GOD YOURSELF! Ask The Primodial Kudalini Mother!!! Sit down, calm yourself for one or two minutes, feel the chakra flow, then with a silent mind, say “God Is Ammachi, a demon pretending to heal people?” And with your hands 8 inches a part, if you feel an increase of energy and coolness its a yes, and if its no its nothing or very warm… Be careful as to your thoughts! They disturb the Angya Chakra! Then you will not get a smooth answer! ! All blessings to all brothers and sisters, may we awake!

   Jai Om! !

3. manohari Says:
   December 25th, 2011 at 11:49 am

   So happy that some people got free from Amma’s CATCH.
   Personaly I’ve been cheated by this SWINDLER for more than 20 years! Many times that I asked her a question about my future or any advice I belived her, thinking she knows the future but the times showed me that she was wrong again and again. So badly I wonted to continue with a faith in Amma (it’s not easy to free at once, my adictions to her was very old) then I started talking around with her’s swamis (orange dressed) asking what’s wrong why things never happened like she told me they will happen. Some of swamis got very angry, shouting on me: “Of course that Amma do lies but only becouse some of diciples are so stupid that she just can’t tell them truth !!!” Those more gentle, swamis explained me: ” Is not that Amma did LIES to you but for your good at the time she did change your destiny (karma) that’s the reason why things didn’t happend as she told you” O, I didn’t know it’s for my good but becouse I followed her advices I invested all my saving that I had in bank and lost all…even my husband (SHE MARRIED US SAYING WE ARE GOING TO BE TOGETHER FOR ALL LIFE) we divorced 2 years afther Amma married us !!! Now I’am homeless facing deep depresion why I believed to swindler and let AMMA DESTROING ALL MY LIFE.
   Many of us got more miserable since we met Amma. She can’t be honest she is SPIRITUAL SWINDLER.

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